Getting Off Your Ass and Making it Happen !!

When I decided to do this blog. It was about two years ago. I actually got off my ass and made the blog last July and now I'm getting off my ass to actually go through with it. I am a firm believer of you get what you actually put into life. Your brain can be conditioned to many things with discipline and will power you can achieve your goals. I felt like starting a blog would be cliche because I was a dj and people would feel like I just wanted attention. I spent so much time worried about what others thought. But in the same breathe the people who I cared about would always come asking me for advice or mentoring. So maybe it wasn't others opinions it was mine. I was holding myself back. When this realization hit me I applied it to all areas of my life and started becoming fully accountable for my actions, my progress, my happiness,my peace. It was no longer what others thought it was about what I thought I wanted my goals. I realized I was blaming others for me not continuously not pursuing My goals.I blamed others for my DJ career not being how I wanted, instead of my lack of determination, and consistency . I was irritated with my other businesses being slow and disorganized and blamed my business partner instead of working as a team .I blamed others for coming around me and making me unhappy, instead of being happy regardless. Then there was the excuses has to why I couldn't finish things or make things the way I wanted. I was tired. You can't follow your dreams with excuses blame and regret. I had to forgive myself. Because obviously I was upset with myself.

Once you forgive yourself and find peace with your own demons it makes it easier to move forward. I put so much pressure on myself I wasn't accomplishing anything. So I checked out. I stopped pressuring myself and started organizing my thoughts and ideas. I started making lists and schedules. Setting reminders on my phone to remind me to do things that caused me to feel overwhelmed and upset when they fell behind. I took control and organized my life. I listened to positive affirmation music while I slept and in traffic when I would become flustered.

Then slowly but surely I was getting stuff finished, checking off things I was behind on. I was happier with myself, when others came

Around that didn't make me happy I didn't let them bother me. I have been more organized and at peace .Then it came down to my blog on my checklist and I was stumped on what to write as my first entry back besides my starter one. Then this came to mind. I instantly became proud of myself. I'm currently getting my hair done sitting under the dryer utilizing a time I absolutely dread to do something I've been meaning to do !! Ingenious. So if you have dreams goals, whether it's peace, organization, getting a job, a certificate, starting a business anything.

You Can Do It.... You Just Have To Get Up Off Your Ass And Make It Happen !!!!

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